About 9 months ago this little guy showed up at my house. Truth be told, Todd bought some cat treats to feed the cats across the street and out of no where comes this long haired, very friendly cat. We nicknamed him Fatty because he had no qualms about jumping in your lap to steal all of the treats out of your hand.
From that day on he never left my front porch. He slept next to the front door and waited for me to come out every morning and pet him. If I sat in the rocking chair, he jumped right up in my lap and went to sleep. It was clear he wasn't going anywhere and although I hadn't planned on it, I had a cat.
Eventually Wesley got a name and spent a few hours each night inside. This cat lived to be loved on. A few hours turned into "spending cold nights inside" and eventually that turned into leaving the back door open so he could come in whenever he wanted. I have never met a more loving animal. Never more than a foot away from me, he slept on the kitchen rug while I made dinner, on the bathroom rug while I got ready, on a pile of clothes while I did laundry. If I was sitting in a weird position in a chair that didn't allow lap-laying, that's fine, he could weasel his way into a little corner so that he could still put his little head on my hand.
On Friday night, Todd went to pet Wesley who was laying on the porch balcony. He let out a cry like Todd had touched a sore spot so we started to check him to see if he was hurt. He tried to stand up and immediately fell over as if his back legs were paralyzed. I didn't know if he had a broken leg, if he was sick, we both kind of panicked and tried to get the emergency vet's phone number. He tried to stand up two more times and immediately feel over so I helped him lay down and petted his head. He started to gasp and in about 30 seconds, he had stopped breathing.
We were devastated and shocked. There was absolutely nothing we could have done. He was perfectly healthy 30 minutes prior.
My sweet neighbor who works for the Humane Society came over and took him in on Saturday to find out what happened. He had hypertrophic cardiomyopathy. If the vet had recognized his irregular heartbeat a few months ago we might have been able to treat his condition and spend a few more months or years with him. Wesley just had a bad heart. Please have your vet check your cats heart health- this condition is the number one cause of sudden cat death.
I wish there was something we could have done for him. He brought so much joy to us in the past nine months and it wasn't nearly enough time. It's a little quiet around here now...
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Very sorry about your sweet kitty. They really become part of the family. Take comfort in that you gave him a perfect forever home, and lots of love.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry Hun. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteWe have a "Wesley" ourselves but my youngest daughter chose the name Rainbow. He cam up at the end of September and just like your Wesley, Rainbow has wiggled his way into our chairs, laps and our hearts. Six months ago I would have thought you were silly for being heartsick over a cat, but now I can honestly say that I will pray for you. Our sweet boy, Rainbow, has brought such happiness to our home
ReplyDeleteAwww...I am so sorry for your loss. It's heartbreaking. I know from personal experience. Hug.
ReplyDeleteI am so, so sorry to hear about Wesley! I know you're sad to see him go, but I'm glad he found you nine months ago..he definitely knew he was loved! I will be thinking of you..and will hug my kittens a little tighter tonight.
ReplyDeleteI am so, so sorry. I have a precious kitty and know the joy they bring. So, so, so sorry . . .
ReplyDeletethis is just so heartbreaking. i'm so so sorry for your loss. i'm so glad he found y'all, and that you could show him so much love in his last 9 months. xoxo
ReplyDeleteAww, I am so sorry. It is so awful to lose a pet. At least he had a great last nine months!
ReplyDeleteI have a black and white cat that my son found when she was a kiiten. I have never had a cat so I didn't know what to expect. My husband and I have fallen so in love with her. She is very affectionate and tons of entertainment. We have been told black and white cats are the most loving and personable with people. I truly understand your pain but take pleasure knowing Wesley felt your love and attention!!!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss! Losing a pet in so hard. At least you gave him a happy ending to his life.
ReplyDeleteSo you're telling us you basically adopted a cat but neglected to take it to the vet and we are supposed to pity you? I feel bad for the poor animal who was neglected, not you.
ReplyDeleteWow I feel sorry for the fact you don't have common decency or compassion
DeleteYou seemed to have missed the part where I said the vet didn't catch it. He wasn't neglected for one second.
DeleteWow, RS. Are you kidding, sister? I mean, really? If you have an issue with thinking Grits was expecting pity, you really need to mosey right along and find a different blog to read. Anyone with any sense of awareness or compassion could easily interpret she's heartbroken to have lost such a sweet, unexpected addition to her life. I normally sidestep the ridiculous comments like your own, but this is just absurd. Find some sympathy. Your comment was unimaginably rude and heartless. Spread your negativity elsewhere.
DeleteEvery photo you've ever posted of Wesley shows how well cared for y'all kept him. I'm so sorry for y'alls loss and that the vet didn't catch it. I've had a similar incident occur where the vet simply didn't detect it and we lost a pet. You did not neglect him, you gave a stray cat a wonderful wonderful life!
ReplyDeleteI have love the pictures and stories of Wesley over the past few months. His passing totally made me cry. When you posted on Twitter of his passing, I hugged my pup a little harder that night. These creatures totally capture your heart (even when you didn't intend them to do so), but we are better off for having loved them.
ReplyDelete:( I am so sorry to read of Wesley's passing. I loved how he was always showing up in the postings.... Like the recent one of the chicks..... He was in one corner of the yard. My heart aches for you as I know that he held a special place in your family
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I had to let my sweet Bella go a couple of years ago. When I adopted her I was told she was much younger than she actually was. She was my first kitty, and will always hold a special place in my heart. They do become a part of your family. Take comfort in knowing that you gave him love and a beautiful home; and he clearly loved and adored you from your pictures and posts about him.
ReplyDeleteAwe. Nicole. I know how you feel. After working at a vet for 16 years, I cannot tell you how many times I have answered the call of clients who suddenly found their "healthy cat" deceased. Heart broken for them and you! May peace be with you in these hard days :-((
ReplyDeleteI am so sad to read this about Wesley. I enjoyed seeing him on your blog. Losing a pet is always so awful. RIP Wesley.
ReplyDeleteNicole, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you and Todd can find comfort in sweet memories of that spunky, sweet cat. And as tough as I can imagine it was, I think it is great that you were there when he passed over to the "Rainbow Bridge." He obviously felt very loved and cared for.
ReplyDeleteoh, I am so sad for your loss..God sent him to be with you all to love and care for him..
ReplyDeleteThis just broke my heart, I'm so sorry for your loss! It's amazing how these creatures make their way into our hearts and homes when we aren't even looking for it. He was lucky to have you those last few months of his life!!
ReplyDeleteOh gracious, my heart just breaks for you. Nothing can compare to the love our animals bring us and I can only imagine what you're going through right now. Makes me want to hug my little monsters extra tight. You're in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteMy heart broke for you when I heard about sweet Wesley. All I could think about was how lucky you both were to find each other....I'm so sorry he's gone, but happy he got to experience love and comfort before he left. You gave him the best months of his life and even though it hurt you, I'm glad he was with you, rather than outside alone.
ReplyDeleteYou can play the "what if" game - in fact, it's hard not to. I went through a similar thing when we lost our beloved dog a few years ago - but all we can do is love them and do our best. Which you did. ((hugs))
I am so sorry to hear about Wesley! AT least you know the last nine months he was loved and well cared for. We lost our cat almost 9 months ago and I still miss him, it's amazing how they can get into your heart!
ReplyDeleteJust wanted to add my condolences...I am so sorry :( It seems like he was such a blessing for the nine months that he was there--full of life and love.
ReplyDeleteI have to say, I love these photos you've shared, you can really see his personality shine through--I love the ones of him sprawled on his back and snuggled up with his mouse toy :)
Ugh, I am SO sorry. I cannot believe the vet did not check that as I thought it was standard procedure. Thank you for telling us the condition so those who have cats can check into that in the future! Many, many hugs. I hope Todd and you will cherish your photos and memories of your short time with Wesley.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear of your loss. HUGS!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry about the loss of your kitty. He looks like he was a such a sweet cat. At least you know you gave him a wonderful and loving last 9 months of his life.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry about Wesley :( We've had 2 cats die suddenly so I know it can be very traumatizing!
ReplyDeleteAgain, I am so so sorry for your loss. We had a family cat for 17 years growing up, and she died over the course of a few weeks due to lung cancer, it is devastaing and you feel absolutely helpless. However, it seemed he lived a very loved and wonderful life with great cat parents.
ReplyDeleteI am so heartbroken for you and Todd. Sending my prayers up for you guys!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about Wesley. I know it still has to be a shock. Something very similar just happened with my parents' dog. It's so hard to believe but I'm certain you gave him a great home if only for a little while.
ReplyDeleteHow lucky he was to find your porch. From one animal lover to another, thank you for loving him for 9 months. He was a blessed kitty for sure. So sorry for your loss of a treasured pet.
ReplyDeleteJust noticed he's sleeping on your purse how sweet.
ReplyDeleteRest in peace sweet kitty.
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I am so unbelievably sorry. I follow you on Instagram and it's so obvious he stole your heart. I'm really sorry for your loss.
ReplyDeleteOh my word, I am so, so sorry! The loss of a pet is just devastating. Poor thing. Thankfully he didn't suffer long. It sure looks and sounds like he loved y'all very much and the time y'all had together was wonderful! He was a beautiful cat!
ReplyDeleteaww...I'm so sorry about your loss - pets have such a place in your heart
ReplyDeletei love the picture with the mouse!
Oh my gosh sooo scary!!! I am so sorry for your loss
ReplyDeleteLazy meow....but she's very sweet
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